Okay, this has gone on long enough. I feel that the Nice Guy has been run into the ground and depreciated lower than ever due to the internet backlash. I understand the defense: the nice guy ploy is a routine; nice guys are too shortsighted to be capable of a mature, healthy…
Actually, I want to point out that the comment on a person of another race does not have the job of educating you on race, because it’s a solid point. No, no one has the job of anything, nor is anything I say more than commentary. But the Nice Guys need to change, and someone needs to set them straight. I can’t change anyone who is too immature to recognize their own faults (directed at the misguided Nice Guys, not a jab at the posts I’m receiving) anymore than anyone of another race, gender or status. But I think something more proactive than calling then creepy and pointing out their flaws should be done.
Thanks for the insight, I’d like to hear a longer rebuttal if you have one.